THE PRESENCE OF THE PAST

We are influenced by those who came before us and influencing those who come after. Everything in the universe is interconnected so are we. We inherit cultures and experiences. This is known as collective unconscious or memory in nature.

Memory in nature organises itself in systems such as flock of birds, religions, countries, football teams and so on but the most important system for human beings is the family. Family systems are responsible for how we live and how we thrive through natural laws called 'The Orders of Love".

The orders of love rarely exist intact within the average family. They dictate who belongs and how disruption happens when a family member has been excluded by their families. All exclusions creates disruption. They are known as entanglements.

'The idea of the memory being the brain is an assumption. Everything that happens in our culture we inherit,' Rupert Sheldrake.

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Whilst life is the greatest gift given to us by our parents, trauma is the greatest obstacle. It plays like a broken record, in cycles and shows itself through symptoms well known to all: drug addiction, lack of motivation, new partner with the same behaviour as the old one, always working but broke most of the time...

• What if a man’s drug addiction were really a search for connection with his father?

• Suppose a suicidal adolescent was unconsciously trying to follow the fate of an older brother who wasn't born because the mother had a miscarriage?

• What if a woman’s breast cancer were rooted in the unconscious feeling of guilt for having had an abortion?

• Why do people who adopt children often end up divorcing or losing all intimacy in their marriage?

• Why do marriages where a spouse who cheated then was forgiven ends?

• What if a man's alcoholism is because of an unconscious loyalty to his alcoholic father?

• Can a person’s chronic low back pain actually represents the need to show respect to their mother or father?

• What if the guilt a person feels really belongs to a family member who's been a slave owner or a Nazi soldier?

Experience includes:

Be part of a group emotional healing moring.

During this workshop you may be able to bring your own issue, be a representative in someone else's entanglement or just observe this astonishing, collective and powerful gathering called family constellations.

In all of the options, you will see your parents and life through a different perspective. You will stronger to make and implements changes needed.